Eight Months ago I received a call from my brother "Flana your friend's brother past away" .. "Whaaat !! OMG" .. "Yeah she doesn't know yet please make sure it stays that way until the family knows then they'll tell her" .. "I'm still in shock but ok"
My friend's brother lives in the UK. It was his last year studying there. He past away from a heart attack caused by stress.
Later that day people started asking me "Is it true that Rashid past away?" I reply please keep it on the low his family doesn't know yet ..
But guess what they do :) they start sending Broadcasts on the bbm yed3oon lah
Ya nas stop broadcasting .. I know you mean well bs ahleh mayadron .. ymken yo9al lehum o 5awateh ysogon wla fi mekan 3aam ..
By the end of that day they told the father who fainted straight away and was took to the hospital
My friend called her brother in-law .. Whys my dad's phone off? he replied oh we're all fishing fil Durra .. Just go to sleep we'll see you tomorrow
She wakes up the next morning and her phone is out of service y3ni mag6oo3 .. she wonders why and tries to connect it to the wifi .. Once she does that she receives broadcasts about her brother
Can you imagine the shock she was in .. and to send her a broadcast?! She automatically assumed it wasn't him .. she kept pinging people "Who died? which Rashid?" and of course no1 answers her
She tried using the house phone .. It doesn't work .. her brotehr in-law cut all lines so people wouldn't be able to tell them .. her sister came and told her baba is in the hospital they say he fell when he was fishing .. and there they told them to pray for him and all
Rashid's body was still in the UK because of the ejra2at they had to take before sending him back home .. The body arrived 3 days later and the family didn't want anyone to be there or wait for anyone because as it is "ekram el mayet dafneh" and they didn't tell his sisters because they didn't want their last look at their brother dead since 3 days ago ..
But again guess what my friend receives :) "Rashid is now buried and munkar o nakeer are asking him about ........" CAN YOU JUST IMAGINE ! she gets a broadcast that he died and another that he was buried ! How can people send his sisters these broadcasts
My point is from this post is that be careful with what you send people .. I know el mayet ye7taj el du3a2 bs not to send it to family members .. Its her brother .. I wouldn't want any1 to be put in that situation .. Its hard enough to hear that from family members .. Imagine a broadcast
I know this post is shwaya depressing and I apologize for the sad post but I just had to try to get this msg through ..
Love,
EB xoxo
I did recieve those broadcasts! I know a few of his cousins one had her engagment on the same day he died I think :( mskeena she didn't know!!
ReplyDeleteAllah yr7maaa o ya'3fr lah ya rab! O y9aber ahala...It must be so heartbreaking to find out your brother passed away this way, Bs they should've been told right away 7araam el9ara7a they find out like that. :(
i agree with you 100% people need to realised this.
ReplyDeleteallah yer7amu
ur write there r ways to give them the mzg but not through a broadcast it just makes it worser! w allah yer7ma
ReplyDeletePD; Yeah you're right but he past away a couple of days before that but they didn't know .. Allah yer7ema .. yeah they should've told them but the night they found out was at the end of his cousin's melcha and the father was taken to the hospital so they waited til the next morning
ReplyDeleteJuly*; da3aweech :*
han00shi: They meant well but I guess they weren't thinking